söndag 11 november 2012

Batteriladdning

JAG ÄLSKAR HELGER!

Så mycket tid att bara vara, tankarna hinner tänkas klart och vardagen hinner landa.

Jag kan vara riktigt "emo" på helgerna och typ stänga in mig och bara vara med mig själv. Det är ju så himla "inne" i dagens samhälle att umgås. Ha söndagsbrunch med sina snygga, sminkade, macarone-bakande vänner i deras homestylade hem. Fika på stan i timtal. Umgås, umgås, umgås, UMGÅÅÅÅS!

Och visst jag gillar också att umgås! Med mina snygga, osminkade, Colting-pannkaks-stekande vänner med valkar i händerna :D Och er andra också såklart ;)

Däremot så behöver jag verkligen tid för mig själv emellanåt! Ligga i soffan och glo, göra ingenting, lyssna på musik. Filosofera. Planera. Reflektera. Ville skriva nått snuskigt men det blev platt fall :P
Det är min livskälla!

Jag är introvert och det är så sjukt skönt att veta, för annars hade jag trott att det var något fel på mig som har detta ensamhets-behov!



Contrary to what most people think, an introvert is not simply a person who is shy. In fact, being shy has little to do with being an introvert! Shyness has an element of apprehension, nervousness and anxiety, and while an introvert may also be shy, introversion itself is not shyness. Basically, an introvert is a person who is energized by being alone and whose energy is drained by being around other people.

Introverts are more concerned with the inner world of the mind. They enjoy thinking, exploring their thoughts and feelings. They often avoid social situations because being around people drains their energy. This is true even if they have good social skills. After being with people for any length of time, such as at a party, they need time alone to "recharge."

When introverts want to be alone, it is not, by itself, a sign of depression. It means that they either need to regain their energy from being around people or that they simply want the time to be with their own thoughts. Being with people, even people they like and are comfortable with, can prevent them from their desire to be quietly introspective.

Being introspective, though, does not mean that an introvert never has conversations. However, those conversations are generally about ideas and concepts, not about what they consider the trivial matters of social small talk.

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